Stress Control!

Stress Control!
Simple modifications in posture, habits, thought, and behavior often go a long way toward reducing feelings of stress and tension. Here are 8 quick and simple things you can do immediately to help keep your stress level under control.
1. Control Your AngerWatch for the next instance in which you find yourself becoming annoyed or angry at something trivial or unimportant, then practice letting go - make a conscious choice not to become angry or upset. Do not allow yourself to waste thought and energy where it isn't deserved. Effective anger management is a tried-and-true stress reducer.
2. BreatheBreathe slowly and deeply. Before reacting to the next stressful occurrence, take three deep breaths and release them slowly. If you have a few minutes, try out breathing exercises such as meditation or guided imagery.
3. Slow Downwhenever you feel overwhelmed by stress, practice speaking more slowly than usual. You'll find that you think more clearly and react more reasonably to stressful situations. Stressed people tend to speak fast and breathlessly; by slowing down your speech you'll also appear less anxious and more in control of any situation.
4. Complete One Simple To DoJump start an effective time management strategy. Choose one simple thing you have been putting off (e.g. returning a phone call, making a doctor's appointment) and do it immediately. Just taking care of one nagging responsibility can be energizing and can improve your attitude.
5. Get Some Fresh AirGet outdoors for a brief break. Our grandparents were right about the healing power of fresh air. Don't be deterred by foul weather or a full schedule. Even five minutes on a balcony or terrace can be rejuvenating.
6. Avoid Hunger and DehydrationDrink plenty of water and eat small, nutritious snacks. Hunger and dehydration, even before you're aware of them, can provoke aggressiveness and exacerbate feelings of anxiety and stress.
7. Do a Quick Posture CheckHold your head and shoulders upright and avoid stooping or slumping. Bad posture can lead to muscle tension, pain, and increased stress.
8. Recharge at the Day's EndPlan something rewarding for the end of your stressful day, even if only a relaxing bath or half an hour with a good book. Put aside work, housekeeping or family concerns for a brief period before bedtime and allow yourself to fully relax. Don't spend this time planning tomorrow's schedule or doing chores you didn't get around to during the day. Remember that you need time to recharge and energize yourself - you'll be much better prepared to face another stressful day.

11 Ways to Keep Your Cool:
Dale Collie is an author, speaker, former US Army Ranger, CEO, and professor at West Point. His McGraw-Hill book, "Winning Under Fire: Turn Stress into Success the US Army Way," takes strategies from the battlefield into the boardroom and beyond. A Purple Heart recipient, Dale has succeeded in both the Army and the corporate world through his management and leadership strategies.
11 Ways to Keep Your Cool
· Do your own job.
· Get organized.
· Communicate with the boss and others.
· Control interruptions.
· Schedule family time.
· Exercise.
· Eat right.
· Get eight hours sleep a night.
· Let others know what bugs you.
· Learn new things about your job.
· Volunteer to help others.

Do your own job: When poor the work habits of others create stress, remember why you're there. Pay attention to your own job. You will not be rated on the performance of others, but the boss will note the quality of your work. Stay focused on the job you were hired for and let management deal with improving the department or the company. Don't get stressed about things that are not your responsibility.
Organization: Regardless of company expectations, you can alleviate a lot of your stress by organizing your workspace and getting a firm grasp on the work that must be done. Even if you have to pay for it yourself, get the tools needed to organize your effort, such as files, furniture, PDAs, software, and training. Work with your boss to prioritize projects and routine tasks. Only get concerned about unfinished work if the boss gives it a priority. You'll never get everything done, so pick the most important and file everything else in an easy to reach file drawer.
Communication: It's important to maintain your supervisor's comfort level, so meet with them as often as necessary to keep them informed of projects and progress. Give them updates the way they want them (email, memos, briefings, etc.), and persist in getting the feedback that is so important in reducing stress. Use this same strategy with those who give you information or products to do your job and those who depend on what you give them. Good communication is essential for good stress control.
Interruptions: Avoid stressful interruptions by controlling your schedule and your communications. Establish times for meeting with those who want information from you and hold them to it. The more persistent you are, the more organized they will be. Handle phone calls and respond to email during specific times. Develop a list of people and events that disrupt your job and work with each until it is under control.
Family Time: Family situations are among the greatest stressors at work. There's an old axiom that says, "If momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy." It's true. Avoid future problems by prioritizing family time on your schedule and stick to it. Get professional help if you're unable to resolve sticky situations.
Exercise: More than 80% of all doctor's visits are stress-related. Those who find time to exercise, reduce stress, strengthen their immune system, and improve their well-being are much more effective than those who do not. Do a little research and talk with the experts to find out what fits your needs. Make exercise part of your work schedule if possible; don't let it cut into family time. Regular exercise can add years to your own life and make you more productive for your employer.
Nutrition: Proper nutrition is a key to stress control. The US Army recognizes proper nutrition as a critical element in controlling stress among combat soldiers and you must admit, your job is sometimes as stressful as combat. Get information to improve nutrition. You'll have to make some deliberate changes because our eating habits are affected by our culture, the expectations of others, and inadequate knowledge about what makes a proper diet. Learn what is needed and make a plan.
Rest: Take charge of your sleep habits in the same way you work on your eating habits. Sleep deprivation is a major stressor by itself and it adds to the problem with other stressful events. Cut out the late night television. Quit taking work home from the office. Change the pattern of your weekend parties. Get some new friends. Do whatever is necessary to get back on track with seven or eight hours sleep every night. Studies show that twenty-minute power naps make us more productive, so use part of your lunch break for nutrition and part for a short nap to control stress. You'll get more done.
Discussion: Tell people what's on your mind. If you can't ignore someone's special talent for bugging you, talk it over with him or her. There's a good chance they are unaware of the offense, so you don't need to get up tight about it. In a friendly tone of voice, let them know what gets under your skin and be ready to make some concessions yourself. As you now know, their irritating habit is probably magnified by other stressors, so make sure you've done what you can to control stress before challenging anyone.
Education: The more educated you are about your job, the less stressful it becomes. Even if you've been on the job for years, there's always more to learn about the upstream and downstream impact of what you do. Stay up to date with trade journals, books, and other research. Become the expert at what you do and coach others. While some companies do not pay for this type education, your own investment will make you more valuable to your company. What you know is portable - and it looks good on a resume.
Volunteer: Helping others has an immediate impact on stress levels. Build in some family time by volunteering as a family once a month. Build rapport with supervisors and co-workers by organizing a once-a-week lunchtime volunteer program. Lead a food or clothing collection for needy employees or families outside your company.
Each of these stress relievers works independently of the others. Find one that's practical for you and put it to work. Friends, family, and co-workers will all notice the changes in you and thank you for making the effort.
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